When you are really feeling as though you are lonely and kind of desperate to meet a woman, the first thing that you are going to think of as being a solution is to go out and meet someone. That sounds like the perfect thing to do, right? Well, it may be and it may not be. See, when you are too desperate and feeling lonely, you can end up doing a lot of the wrong things and that can just lead to you feeling worse about things. A lot of lonely guys either repel the women that they want to attract because of that lonely and desperate vibe. Still others end up with women that are totally wrong for them all because they are trying to get rid of that lonely feeling and they will put up wit just about anything just to have a woman in their life.
If you don’t want to repel women and you also don’t want to run the risk of ending up with a woman who winds up making you unhappy and miserable, then you need to deal with those feelings of being lonely and desperate first before you actually go out to meet women. It’s the one thing that you can do right away that is going to help you find that happiness that you are seeking. Too many guys end up thinking that they are going to be single and alone forever and that ends up making them feel like they have to go out to meet someone and that ends up being the last thing that they should do.
A good way to look at it is, when you are happy and you are doing really well – then you will be able to attract a woman who is happy and also doing really well with life. That should be enough to make you feel like it is important for you to deal with your feelings first, so that you don’t run the risk of meeting the wrong woman or repelling most of the women that you come across.