You have to make your life better after going through a bad break up with a woman. You have to be able to find a way to move on so that you are not a shell of a man, the kind of guy that you see sitting alone in a bar and you just know that some women broke his heart a long time ago. You have to be able to find out some way to help yourself get a girlfriend after the break up if you want to make your life better than it is right now.
It’s tough to try and push yourself back into the dating game after getting scarred from a bad break up. You probably assume that it is going to happen again and that is just something that you do not want to have to deal with. And you might also be afraid that you are going to end up getting into another relationship that won’t work out. That may happen, but you know what? You have to try and take that step forward if you want your life to get better after the break up.
It just won’t fall into place until you make it fall into place. Know what I mean?